YOU AS YOURSELF

How can you define yourself?  Are you thinking of yourself to be something unique in a way you want to be?  Maybe there's many thoughts that comes to your mind that you can refer to yourself.  You know what, according to Indira Gandhi that "You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist" where you must first know yourself and just be true and stay as what you are.

You don't have to like everybody but sometimes we have to deal with people we don't like.  There are ways also to make this easier on yourself and to them.  We must learned to know how to hear the opinions and thoughts and be willing to listen with others.  We must learned how to value and be careful of their feelings where we treat them with respect.  Through respect, it means that you understand others and be willing to compromise which we will be having a settlement in each side gives up some demands or make concessions. You may also learn that you have more in common than you think.  Try to think that sometimes its alright to get mad at yourself.  When you do something you know you shouldn't and there's a little anger can set you straight but for me, we shouldn't get it out of hand.  If there's a moment we get mad we must learn not to hate our self because as a human it's part of our life to make mistakes.  We must bare in our mind that we learned from our mistakes that we did.  We give our self a break and as long as we learned from it and  were doing better and okay.

Many people may think that you as a person must have the right to be happy in life where we need to take time to enjoy and feel right.  Throughout our lives, we've been busy looking out for our self.  We tried to pursue our own interest and do the things we want to do.  I may considered also that being a human, it's our right to have a freedom of choice but it's also a responsibility.  We take a consequences if we have a choice where it just like a game, there's a winner and there's a loser.  That's why we need to be careful about the choices we make even it how big and small it was.  There's no one notices what we can do until we don't do it.  For me, if we do something that feel us the fulfillment in life, we must do give praise on our self even in a simple way.

All I can say is that always think positive in life and we can do things if you thinks it's right with the help of Our Almighty God.  Just also think that you as yourself is unique and be the best of whatever you are because there's no other you in this world.